3 Tips for Raising a Little Visionary

3 Tips for Raising a Little Visionary

Three Tips for Raising a Little Visionary

Remember the time when you were dreaming of having a child, in your heart you just knew your child would be well behaved and delightful in every way. We all make this rookie mistake and the reality is our children have their own personalities, desires, wants and needs and if they challenge us then perhaps it is we who should adapt and change.

As a parent myself, I continue to learn to let go of expectations and look at my children as unique individuals who are guided intuitively by something I refer to as their soul print, which can also be defined as a uniqueness blue print designed by their inner being. All we need to do is recognize our child’s soul print so we can relate to them well. Then all that is required is to give them the tools and knowledge on how to create their own reality according to their uniqueness.

The good news is you can start today with these 3 tips on Raising a Little Visionary:

1. Embrace Your Child’s Uniqueness

Who is your child? What are they trying to tell you?

Often we are so busy trying to mold our children to adapt to the common behavior expectations, that we miss the point. Not to mention this type of molding tends to lead to more worrying about what needs to be fixed in your child.

As a society we spend far too much time integrating children to be the same as other children so they ‘fit in’, but this approach just chips away at all the characteristics that make them unique. Imagine if we could observe our children and understand their inner motivations and interests and then really embrace that uniqueness and help them to do so as well. All it takes is letting go of the program of how ‘they should be’ and instead observe ‘who they really are’.

In addition to observing your child, I recommend to all parents to invest in a full astrological birth chart on your child. These charts always contain useful insights that make you stop and think ‘yeah, you know they really are like that’. It will highlight possible challenges and motivations which can also guide your parenting technique so it is tailored to each child.

2. Change Your Program

A common mistake that people make is thinking that they can shape their children without having to change their lives. Children learn from the examples of others (not so much their words) so if you want your children to be little visionaries, the best way is to become a Visionary yourself, start today. Start learning about how to transform yourself into a Visionary and the person you have always wanted to be but never took the time to be, once you do take this time you will get more out of life than you can imagine right now. Without a doubt, you will be the biggest inspiration a child can have if you do this.

3. Give The Gift of Gratefulness

When you a grateful, amazing things start to happen. Not only are you more positive, your children will become more positive as well and uplifted. They thrive on positive energy and you can make this a theme in your household by always being in a state of gratefulness. You can play a great little game where anytime a family members complains about anything they have to then immediately reveal what about the situation also makes them grateful. Children will keep you on your toes with this.

When you are grateful you welcome more into your life to be grateful for and you align yourself the vibration of receiving.

I can only imagine how amazing children’s lives will be by the time they are adults if they are given the gift of gratefulness early.

Raise Your Vibration with Gratitude

Raise Your Vibration with Gratitude

Raising Your Vibration with Gratitude

“Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.” – Melody Beattie

In the Oxford dictionary, the definition of being Grateful is the quality of being thankful; readiness to show appreciation and to return kindness. My interpretation of this definition, is that there is an exchange of energy – you are thankful for receiving and as a result you express kindness (and love). When you practice being grateful for all that you already have, you are express a positive energy.

Several years ago I decided to do a Gratitude experiment and express my gratitude as much a possible throughout each day over a month. The results were astounding in terms of raising my vibration. I noticed that focusing on a situation or an object that I was grateful for, released an energy of pure love and I started receiving more things to be grateful for including opportunities, friendships, inspiring conversations and material items. All of sudden, my energy was pulsating higher and higher and I gained momentum towards feeling good and then amazing.

When it comes to the Law of Attraction – we bring to us more of the same of what we are giving out. If we are feeling grateful and excited about what we already have, the Universe will bring us more things to feel grateful about – it is the fundamental law of attraction. I recommend if you want to raise your vibration to attract more of what you desire into your life, than conduct a Gratitude experiment and start enjoying the results.

Here is how to do a Gratitude Experiment:

  1. Write a list of ten things you are grateful for each day in a notebook or journal.  No need to get fancy, just any paper will do.
  2. Each day, add a theme to your gratitude list i.e. health, money, relationships and so on
  3. After a week, start adding your desires to the list as if you already received them i.e. I am grateful I have my coffee machine as I absolutely love making fresh coffee in the morning (try to add feeling when you talk about desires)
  4. Rotate your themes and keep adding new desires as if they have happened throughout the 28 days
  5. All throughout your day, be mindful of what you are grateful for. The longer you remain in a state of gratefulness throughout each day, the more amazing you will feel.
  6. At the end of each week, write a letter to someone telling them of all the wonderful situations, relationships and new opportunities that appeared in your life (those that happened and yet to come).

Bonne chance! Good Luck.

P.S. If you would prefer a step by step book on Gratitude, I recommend ‘The Magic’ by Rhonda Byrnes.