My Story – A New Way of Being

Ages ago, before becoming the person I am now, the biggest crow I have ever seen flew up 9 stories of the office building and repeatedly tapped its beak on my window like a mad bird. I knew in my bones that it was a sign that big change was on its way.

I refused the call to take change into my own hands and as a result change was thrust upon me and my life went into turmoil and confusion about what I was doing in my career and my life.

I started studying all things energetic and spiritual and it wasn’t until I had a vivid dream to go to Russia, that I quit my well-paying job to figure out the purpose of my life, despite people thinking I was crazy or worse, ‘extremely brave’.

My life changed. I met my husband-to-be on day 2 of the trip, travelled to amazing spiritual places, had many weird and strange experiences and lived between Canada and Australia while I unraveled the confusion.

Then just like that, I had an epiphanyI need to take control of my own destiny and stop leaving it the hands of the Universe to decide.This decision changed my entire life – I let go of limiting beliefs, reclaimed my independent thought, uncovered truth and knowledge, learnt how to manifest, delved into deeper and spiritual levels of manifesting, accessed super levels of creativity and powerful thought and started developing a vision and blueprint for a better way to live, a happy way to live including a philosophy for raising children in a more natural and intuitive way.

My life began here. Everything before then, was someone else’s life, someone else’s formula for living. I called myself into action and transformed into a person who is living a life aligned to my spirit and established a connection to all that is. I now consider myself a purposeful creator.

I direct much of my creative energy towards being a soulful entrepreneur who is ready to help people, who are just like the old me before I changed.They want to access their full human creative potential and invest in a New Way of Being that is 100% aligned to their human spirit and happiness. People who know they are destined for more but feel weary to make big change or simply don’t know how to make it happen. They can make it happen, they just need someone who has walked in their shoes to show them how and that someone is me. 


I created my soulful pathway to a New Way of Being in the form of membership to solve that one simple question you have – Are we destined for more?

YES – I know you are destined for more, we all are and I know you can have a happier life. There is a better way to live, aligned to our human spirit in order to thrive.

I created my courses to give others an easy pathway towards that amazing change you seek. Within your membership I take you through a journey where you learn the art of manifesting, develop your prosperity mindset to attract wealth and opportunities into your life, I help you awaken your soul business so you have a way to support your ideal lifestyle and have more free time and I also give you the tools you need to overcome the typical manifesting challenges that keep people stuck! It’s a formula for living an inspired life.

Not only that, I included my Little Visionaries course for parents to nurture their child’s natural manifesting ability so they too can create happy and purposeful lives as they grow too.

I invite you to join ths Membershipto ignite your journey towards a New Way of Being.




Creating Without Love Leads to a Reality Deprived of Love

Most people don’t realise how powerful love can be in manifesting. It is the essential element to make your desire come to fruition in the fastest and most graceful way possible.

Love is our life force, it lifts us up to the highest planes of virtue and gives us our meaning in life. There is nothing quite like the ride of love.

When we create with love in our hearts, we can change the world as we are aligned to the human spirit. That love is far more powerful than any other process in creation. Creating without love can only lead to a reality that is deprived of love. This reality will be far less satisfying and much more limiting than one directed by love, a reality from decades of deprivation that we are seeing now.

We see the results of those deprived of love every day in positions of power, politics and leading destructive movements who feed on fear and the suppression of others. Personal attacking and creating chaos is not loving and it is not aligned to a soul’s ambition.

Happy people who feel love and give love freely, never intentionally harm anyone or anything. When someone is in the energy of love and happiness, they add value and take actions that uplift others and the world.

Imagine how different our own reality would be if we focus on the energy of love in manifesting our desires. Our goal would be very simple – to openly give and receive love by opening our heart to the beauty of everyone and everything in our world.

You can easily activate your heart to love by:

  • Spending time every day thinking about the things you love
  • Getting creative and investing your time in making things that you love
  • Offering kindness to all

Spend more time in the energy of love and positivity then in the energy of negativity, then you will reach the point where you are in a state of positive attraction. That means if you spend 51% or more of your day in positive energy- you are attracting and manifesting your desires, ones that will change your world for the better as they are immersed in your feelings of love.

My love to you all.


Now Within the Hearts of Many a New Dream Stirs

At this present time there are two realities are emerging. One is driven by fear and separation that is leading us on a path to nowhere. The other is a new dream that has been born in heart’s of love, people looking to be connected to each other again and surrounded by nature. The choice is now upon us to determine which path will warm our own heart and lead us to the happiness we crave in our lives.

Dear soul, aren’t you tired of striving to find something which appears to be unattainable. Where is this illusive satisfaction and happy life you were promised in your youth? The path has always been there for you to find however you must make the conscious choice to move towards it and do things your own way. This may mean giving up the false beliefs and following false prophets into the abyss that they promise you exists.

A wise woman once said to me ‘ Vanessa, you have two choices. Keep allowing the magic into your life or go back to being like everyone else’. Those two choices face us every day and I personally continue to choose the magic. I believe we are here to experience joy and creation and when we are in these states we are fulfilling our purpose. Anything less than that is following someone else’s game and the rules are never going to be in our favour.

It is time to stop waiting for the right time and the right circumstances to line up to change the direction we are heading in – we get to choose and we get to choose when we take that step. There are many people who are choosing happiness and a natural flow over a life of striving to be and to have. They are within the beauty of a new way of being so that more uplifting creations may be born. This dream is upon us now and is calling upon those who seek a better way.





Is People Pleasing Stopping You From Living Your Ideal Life?

Is People Pleasing Stopping You From Living Your Ideal Life?

We are all guilty of people pleasing in some form or another however what may be surprising is how many of us are pleasing people we don’t even particular like or respect. I have witnessed people bending over backwards to try and convince others that they are worthy of their attention but at the end of the day why do we care? 

I remember there was a stage in my life when I have tried to please aquaintances to gain some mythical approval from people who just weren’t nice or worthy of my attention. Then one day I stopped, I had that ahha moment. I realised I had no desire to waste my time getting approval from someone I would never want to be like. Perhaps we fear being rejected by those who offer the most condemnation to others, those that can declare us to not be ‘normal’. However what we may need to remind ourselves of is that the most successful people are not only unique, they also completely embrace their uniqueness and great things always come into their lives.

The evidence would suggest that our desire to gain approval comes from our need to belong and fit in, even at the consequence of our true selves. Our whole society convinces us that we must fit in or suffer the consequences. We all learn this early on at school due to the suffering one experiences when they are different.

Giving in to the urge to fit in only takes us further away from what I like to refer as our Soul Print’, the basic blue print of what makes us unique and what unique path is ours and ours alone to make our heart sing. By choosing to just fit in, we take ourselves away from who we truly are and our happiness.

Have you ever been in a group where you know you must act a certain way or talk a certain way to be accepted even though you just don’t feel like these people are ‘your people’? Somewhere along the line, you convinced yourself that you need their respect and approval and by doing so you have merged into a new person, someone different to your true you. Maybe someone you don’t even recognise or enjoy anymore.

When I first started my journey in recreating my life, a friend was interested in doing some of the same things I was doing. She told me however that she won’t be able to because she would end up ‘different’ like me. It was kind of weird hearing that however on the flip side it was an eye opener to know that someone would choose to keep themselves small so they didn’t rock the boat and appear ‘ not normal’ to people who weren’t striving for more themselves. Why is it that we don’t embrace being different and use it to our advantage? 

All I know is that by choosing to be me, a little different with unique opinions and ideas, I have attracted lots of new people, conversations and opportunities into my life that are far more enriching than the ‘normal things’ I was attracting when I was worried about what people thought. Life is far more interesting now as I am creating my world around my interests.

Isn’t it time we all started living our lives according to our dreams, desires and interests?

If you believe so then as of today, go out and be YOU and do it well

Go shine your light on the world. Stop people pleasing and just be YOU and only YOU, so that your whole world opens up and greets you and invites you into a fun and interesting era.

Raise Your Vibration with Gratitude

Raising Your Vibration with Gratitude

“Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.” – Melody Beattie

In the Oxford dictionary, the definition of being Grateful is the quality of being thankful; readiness to show appreciation and to return kindness. My interpretation of this definition, is that there is an exchange of energy – you are thankful for receiving and as a result you express kindness (and love). When you practice being grateful for all that you already have, you are express a positive energy.

Several years ago I decided to do a Gratitude experiment and express my gratitude as much a possible throughout each day over a month. The results were astounding in terms of raising my vibration. I noticed that focusing on a situation or an object that I was grateful for, released an energy of pure love and I started receiving more things to be grateful for including opportunities, friendships, inspiring conversations and material items. All of sudden, my energy was pulsating higher and higher and I gained momentum towards feeling good and then amazing.

When it comes to the Law of Attraction – we bring to us more of the same of what we are giving out. If we are feeling grateful and excited about what we already have, the Universe will bring us more things to feel grateful about – it is the fundamental law of attraction. I recommend if you want to raise your vibration to attract more of what you desire into your life, than conduct a Gratitude experiment and start enjoying the results.

Here is how to do a Gratitude Experiment:

  1. Write a list of ten things you are grateful for each day in a notebook or journal.  No need to get fancy, just any paper will do.
  2. Each day, add a theme to your gratitude list i.e. health, money, relationships and so on
  3. After a week, start adding your desires to the list as if you already received them i.e. I am grateful I have my coffee machine as I absolutely love making fresh coffee in the morning (try to add feeling when you talk about desires)
  4. Rotate your themes and keep adding new desires as if they have happened throughout the 28 days
  5. All throughout your day, be mindful of what you are grateful for. The longer you remain in a state of gratefulness throughout each day, the more amazing you will feel.
  6. At the end of each week, write a letter to someone telling them of all the wonderful situations, relationships and new opportunities that appeared in your life (those that happened and yet to come).

Bonne chance! Good Luck.

P.S. If you would prefer a step by step book on Gratitude, I recommend ‘The Magic’ by Rhonda Byrnes.