Your Dream Life is Just Around the Corner: 6 Secrets to Becoming a Visionary Mama!

Your Dream Life is Just Around the Corner: 6 Secrets to Becoming a Visionary Mama!

Not today.. says your reflection in the mirror unconsciously closing the door to your happiness and carrying your desires away with the current. Another day has come, and yet your dream of becoming the woman you’ve always wanted to be seems more distant.  As if caught in a time loop, you see this dream slowly slipping away, and you can’t let that happen.

Women tend to lead from the heart. And often, we give all our love, devotion and care to others forgetting about taking care of our own needs and desires.

The secret that often goes untold is that while you are pottering around on this planet, there’s still time to fulfill your deepest desires and create the life you’ve always wanted to live. It all comes down to you and how ready you are to welcome this new life into your heart and home.

Being a Mama is a gift and a blessing.. it always helps to remember.

But as the cycle of life dictates, this Mama has once been a girl who had big dreams of becoming a happy woman, living her life with purpose and excitement, and building a strong and loving family.

Now imagine a reality where this dream had come true – your reality.

William Arthur Ward once said “If you can imagine it, you can create it. If you can dream it, you can become it”.

The fact that you’re reading this now is a sign that you’re willing and ready to create this new dream and live happily ever after.

Become Heart Aligned and be True to Yourself

“A woman in harmony with her spirit is like a river flowing. She goes where she will without pretense and arrives at the destination prepared to be herself and only herself”.

The wisdom of poetry cannot lie. It comes from the heart. It holds the truth. And the truth is,

it takes courage to listen to your heart and be true to yourself. We lose our purpose in life when we allow our mind to dictate our actions and our experiences.

Allow the flower within to bloom and open your heart as it will ignite the flame that has been dormant for a long while and awaken the life energy needed to give shape to your dream.

When the heart dictates our actions and our experiences, we vibrate with joy, and our heart sings with love.

Create a Vision for Your Family

The bonds we share with our family, by birth or marriage, have a huge impact on our emotional well-being. Cultivating the art of togetherness in a space of love nurtures and guides the development of happy children who understand the importance of honoring their own hearts and souls.

As a wife and a Mama, you have a priceless role of nurturing your own heart desires while creating a thriving environment where all family members feel valued, loved and appreciated for their uniqueness. Creating a vision for your family life is the secret to building a happy and healthy family. Cultivate your spiritual connection with your loved one to fortify your life partnership.

Become clear on how you want to engage the heart and mind of your children. Whilst you cannot mold them, you can unfold them to be loving and compassionate and true to themselves.

Manifest your Intentions

“Words may inspire but only action creates change”.

It is not enough to crave the change, you have to set an intention and make the commitment. This is the key to transforming your dream into reality. It is the little choices you make in your everyday life that will lead you to living the life you want. There is but one degree of commitment, total. Your commitment and passion should consume you to the extent that you start believing and acting like you’re living your family dream already.

Give yourself the permission to make mistakes along the way. Your mistakes do not define you. Everything is a learning opportunity and leading you to your chosen path. Embrace your imperfections and let your heart guide you – you will shift to your new life path and manifest your wildest dreams in a more natural and graceful way.

Embrace & Celebrate your Uniqueness

We’ve been raised to embrace the idea of collectiveness where each individual plays the role they are given, mainly absorbed through their experiences with their family. However until recently society failed to understand that “we’re all unique, and have our own special place in the puzzle of the universe”. Over time, perceptions have changed, and uniqueness isn’t now seen as a weakness or threat, but a strength and opportunity, as it always should have been.

Once you embrace your uniqueness, you will learn more about who you are and what you like. It will give you strength to realize your potential. It is the way out of the rut if you want to make a huge leap forward and build your own business that will mean more time to spend at home with your children. Use the power of uniqueness as fuel to do whatever you have in mind. By celebrating your uniqueness you can transform your life.

Most importantly, this will inspire your children to follow in your footsteps and use their uniqueness to shape a fulfilling life.

The Art of Letting Go of Anything Holding You Back

Easier said than done, letting go is probably the most difficult thing to do. Under Freytag’s pyramid, this would be known as the climax part of the plot, the drama that plays a decisive role in your transformation process. It means giving up on things you’ve collected through life that are toxic – any thoughts, habits, relationships that have accompanied you through years and made you miserable.  These things are energetically draining you and sucking the life out of you, and cutting cords with them is a part of the process. You know it has been the right decision when you enter a sense of serenity that brings calmness within.

Gratefulness is a Choice

We usually live in the past and the future, but not the present. We relive moments, we envision future events, but we never concentrate on the Now. Gratefulness is a choice you consciously make to embrace and celebrate life as it is. It is a choice you make to enjoy life, and this is what our children are so good at. It is their innate instinct to be happy in the Now, play, laugh, have fun.. and instead of playing the part of demanding parents, we should stop and listen. There’s so much knowledge we can learn from them. When was the last time you watched your children play?!

Anything in a woman’s hands is possible. You have the chance to take your family life in your own hands, give it shape and form, color and warmth to thrive and grow.

Is People Pleasing Stopping You From Living Your Ideal Life?

Is People Pleasing Stopping You From Living Your Ideal Life?

Is People Pleasing Stopping You From Living Your Ideal Life?

We are all guilty of people pleasing in some form or another however what may be surprising is how many of us are pleasing people we don’t even particular like or respect. I have witnessed people bending over backwards to try and convince others that they are worthy of their attention but at the end of the day why do we care? 

I remember there was a stage in my life when I have tried to please aquaintances to gain some mythical approval from people who just weren’t nice or worthy of my attention. Then one day I stopped, I had that ahha moment. I realised I had no desire to waste my time getting approval from someone I would never want to be like. Perhaps we fear being rejected by those who offer the most condemnation to others, those that can declare us to not be ‘normal’. However what we may need to remind ourselves of is that the most successful people are not only unique, they also completely embrace their uniqueness and great things always come into their lives.

The evidence would suggest that our desire to gain approval comes from our need to belong and fit in, even at the consequence of our true selves. Our whole society convinces us that we must fit in or suffer the consequences. We all learn this early on at school due to the suffering one experiences when they are different.

Giving in to the urge to fit in only takes us further away from what I like to refer as our Soul Print’, the basic blue print of what makes us unique and what unique path is ours and ours alone to make our heart sing. By choosing to just fit in, we take ourselves away from who we truly are and our happiness.

Have you ever been in a group where you know you must act a certain way or talk a certain way to be accepted even though you just don’t feel like these people are ‘your people’? Somewhere along the line, you convinced yourself that you need their respect and approval and by doing so you have merged into a new person, someone different to your true you. Maybe someone you don’t even recognise or enjoy anymore.

When I first started my journey in recreating my life, a friend was interested in doing some of the same things I was doing. She told me however that she won’t be able to because she would end up ‘different’ like me. It was kind of weird hearing that however on the flip side it was an eye opener to know that someone would choose to keep themselves small so they didn’t rock the boat and appear ‘ not normal’ to people who weren’t striving for more themselves. Why is it that we don’t embrace being different and use it to our advantage? 

All I know is that by choosing to be me, a little different with unique opinions and ideas, I have attracted lots of new people, conversations and opportunities into my life that are far more enriching than the ‘normal things’ I was attracting when I was worried about what people thought. Life is far more interesting now as I am creating my world around my interests.

Isn’t it time we all started living our lives according to our dreams, desires and interests?

If you believe so then as of today, go out and be YOU and do it well

Go shine your light on the world. Stop people pleasing and just be YOU and only YOU, so that your whole world opens up and greets you and invites you into a fun and interesting era.

3 Tips for Raising a Little Visionary

3 Tips for Raising a Little Visionary

Three Tips for Raising a Little Visionary

Remember the time when you were dreaming of having a child, in your heart you just knew your child would be well behaved and delightful in every way. We all make this rookie mistake and the reality is our children have their own personalities, desires, wants and needs and if they challenge us then perhaps it is we who should adapt and change.

As a parent myself, I continue to learn to let go of expectations and look at my children as unique individuals who are guided intuitively by something I refer to as their soul print, which can also be defined as a uniqueness blue print designed by their inner being. All we need to do is recognize our child’s soul print so we can relate to them well. Then all that is required is to give them the tools and knowledge on how to create their own reality according to their uniqueness.

The good news is you can start today with these 3 tips on Raising a Little Visionary:

1. Embrace Your Child’s Uniqueness

Who is your child? What are they trying to tell you?

Often we are so busy trying to mold our children to adapt to the common behavior expectations, that we miss the point. Not to mention this type of molding tends to lead to more worrying about what needs to be fixed in your child.

As a society we spend far too much time integrating children to be the same as other children so they ‘fit in’, but this approach just chips away at all the characteristics that make them unique. Imagine if we could observe our children and understand their inner motivations and interests and then really embrace that uniqueness and help them to do so as well. All it takes is letting go of the program of how ‘they should be’ and instead observe ‘who they really are’.

In addition to observing your child, I recommend to all parents to invest in a full astrological birth chart on your child. These charts always contain useful insights that make you stop and think ‘yeah, you know they really are like that’. It will highlight possible challenges and motivations which can also guide your parenting technique so it is tailored to each child.

2. Change Your Program

A common mistake that people make is thinking that they can shape their children without having to change their lives. Children learn from the examples of others (not so much their words) so if you want your children to be little visionaries, the best way is to become a Visionary yourself, start today. Start learning about how to transform yourself into a Visionary and the person you have always wanted to be but never took the time to be, once you do take this time you will get more out of life than you can imagine right now. Without a doubt, you will be the biggest inspiration a child can have if you do this.

3. Give The Gift of Gratefulness

When you a grateful, amazing things start to happen. Not only are you more positive, your children will become more positive as well and uplifted. They thrive on positive energy and you can make this a theme in your household by always being in a state of gratefulness. You can play a great little game where anytime a family members complains about anything they have to then immediately reveal what about the situation also makes them grateful. Children will keep you on your toes with this.

When you are grateful you welcome more into your life to be grateful for and you align yourself the vibration of receiving.

I can only imagine how amazing children’s lives will be by the time they are adults if they are given the gift of gratefulness early.

Desire vs. Intention

Desire vs. Intention

Desire vs. Intention

1. What is Desire?

Desire is defined as a strong wish to have something. We all have desires and we launch new ones all the time often after recognising what we don’t want. A desire can range from wanting that wonderful home made chocolate that is available at the Farmers Market or on the other end of the scale, desiring to be a multi millionaire with the ability to own thousands of chocolate stores.

Desires are wonderful to have, they allow us to envision the life we want to lead. However desire by itself doesn’t get you towards your goals. Energetically, it can remain a wish that may or not be fulfilled depending on your beliefs. For instance, it is easy to fulfill your desire to have homemade chocolate as there is no gap between the action and the belief. You know that you can go to the market on the weekend and buy it. It is within your realm of possibility. To be the multimillionaire though, that may be a different story. Our belief systems often tell us that being a multi millionaire is much harder and requires good luck and perseverance, which may well be the case, however most importantly it requires intention.

2. What is Intention

Intention is defined as an aim or plan. Energetically it means you are agreeing to do what it takes to achieve your desire knowing that it is yours to have. Intention is the difference between getting your goal or not.

When you set an intention to eat that homemade chocolate, you know you have to get out of your chair, get dressed, jump in the car and buy it. It is a series of actions required to get what you want, knowing you will have it. The same applies to being a multi millionaire. Sitting back and waiting for it to show up lowers your chances of getting it, if however you intend to be one, you align to your goal and will take the actions required to get it as you know it will happen.

3. Which One Gets Results – Desire or Intention?

Both however intention is the only thing that actively gets you what you want. Desire is the recognition that you want something and Intention gives you the energy to get it. You will struggle to get what you want by only focusing on desire as chances of someone bringing you that homemade chocolate out of the blue are less than if you got it yourself. If you set an intention to get it such as going yourself or asking someone, you will close the gap between wanting and having.

Summary

Recognise your desires and launch as many as possible. As per my other teachings, take time to imagine what it is like to have your desire and how you would feel when you do. This helps you become energetically connected to what you want and determine whether this desire is right for you.

Then set your intention to get it, knowing that you will take the steps needed to have it. This will inspire you to take the right steps towards your goal to ensure you achieve it.

Should I Continually Focus on What I Want?

Should I Continually Focus on What I Want?

Should I Continually Focus on What I Want?

There are many schools of thoughts on this one and a lot of Guru’s will tell you this is the fool proof method to get what you want. If that feels good, then go for it, however it is quite possible that eventually this method will shift your focus to asking why it hasn’t shown up yet. Then you will ultimately keep it from you for longer until you step out of the ‘waiting game’.

There is an easier way and quite possibly the quickest method – once you get clear about what you want and know you will get it, then you need to step back.  Yes you can have it running as a thought in the background and fuel it with thoughts here and there, however you don’t have to say 500 or more affirmations on it everyday or keep revisiting your desire statement every hour of the day. Keep it in your periphery, do things that bring you joy to raise your vibration and it will come. This is how you allow it in to your field.

When people complicate things, it is a sign of ego. Everything that is natural and good in the world is simple and easy.